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Chanukah’s Greatest Lesson: Finding Light in the Darkness of the Daily Grind

AJ Oberlender • December 29, 2024

How Chanukah teaches us that small wins can light the path to our greatest successes.

You ever feel like life is just one giant daily grind? Wake up, hustle, hit some deadlines, change a few diapers (I see you, parents of toddlers), and then… repeat. It’s so easy to feel like you’re spinning your wheels, looking for that spark of something bigger. Something brighter. Something that makes all the small, monotonous wins actually mean something.


And here’s where Chanukah—yes, the festival of lights—shines brighter than just menorahs and latkes. It’s not just a holiday about miracles; it’s a masterclass in resilience, showing us how the smallest victories illuminate the biggest successes.


Small Wins, Big Shine


Chanukah is a story of defiance and grit. The Maccabees, a tiny band of Jewish rebels, stood up against the mighty Greek empire. Imagine the odds: a few outnumbered, exhausted fighters squaring up against an empire with more resources than Jeff Bezos. And yet, they fought. Why? Because they believed. Because they refused to let darkness win.


The miracle we celebrate isn’t just about oil that lasted eight nights—it’s about showing up every day and finding light where others see none. It’s about seeing the importance of small wins when big victories feel impossible.


Now, bring that idea into your life. Whether it’s slogging through back-to-back meetings at work, tackling a tricky client project, or, let’s be real, surviving bedtime with a toddler—those tiny moments of progress matter. You don’t build success with flashy “miracles”; you build it one small, determined win at a time.


The Daily Darkness We All Face


Here’s the thing: life will test you. Sometimes the darkness is a tough quarter at work, where goals feel unattainable and the pressure’s unbearable. Sometimes it’s more personal, like battling through the exhaustion of parenting or supporting loved ones when things get tough.


And let’s not kid ourselves—if you’re anything like me, you’ve probably sat there some days, coffee in hand, staring at your to-do list and wondering, “Is it all worth it?” Spoiler alert: it is. Because every light you kindle—every moment you refuse to quit—is part of something bigger.


Fueling Your Fire


The Maccabees weren’t superheroes. They weren’t unbeatable. They were just people who lit a flame—one flame—that sparked a revolution. That single light represents the effort, the persistence, and the belief it takes to push through hard days.


It reminds us that success is often about consistency. Think about it. Every small success you rack up is another flame on your personal menorah. Did you finally lock in that new client? Did your team hit a deadline? Did you manage to juggle work, family, and still find 30 minutes for yourself? Those are your flames.


For me, whether it’s launching a tricky new customer’s website at DoorLoop, or just watching my daughters, light up when they see the menorah glow—it’s those small victories that keep me going.


Turning Darkness into Drive


Here’s the real magic of Chanukah: it’s not just about celebrating miracles but creating them. The Maccabees weren’t guaranteed success—they created it with grit and faith. Your own big breakthroughs will come the same way.


So, if you’re feeling stuck in the grind, remember this:

  1. Small wins matter. They add up, even when they don’t feel earth-shattering.
  2. Darkness isn’t permanent. Light always shines through, especially when you fight for it.
  3. Show up and believe. Miracles happen because people refuse to quit.


The darkness of the daily grind? It’s not unbeatable. It’s just waiting for you to find your light—and keep it burning.


Light Your Flame


Chanukah isn’t just a Jewish holiday; it’s a universal reminder that resilience fuels success. It’s proof that the small moments—those tiny flames—matter more than we think.


So, whether you’re crushing it at work, building your dream on the side, or just surviving the day-to-day grind, celebrate your progress. Keep lighting your menorah, one flame at a time.


Because those small sparks? They’re everything.


And who knows—maybe one day, when you look back, you’ll realize that those little victories were the ones that lit up your biggest successes. 🕎

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