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From Oil to Inspiration: Carrying Chanukkah’s Light All Year

AJ Oberlender • December 31, 2024

How Chanukkah’s Lessons of Resilience, Community, and Light Can Inspire Us Every Day

A row of lit candles in a dark room.

Chanukkah is like a warm hug in the middle of winter—a celebration of resilience, light, and the miraculous. It has this beautiful way of sneaking into our lives just when the days feel the shortest—both literally and sometimes emotionally. But let’s face it, after the dreidels are packed up and the last latke is eaten, how many of us go back to the grind and let that magical flicker fade? Here’s a thought: what if we didn’t? What if we carried that tiny-but-mighty light with us all year?


Let’s explore how the lessons of Chanukkah can inspire us every single day, long after the candles are gone.


Miracles, Big and Small


Think about the oil. It wasn’t just a cool party trick that it lasted eight days—it was a reminder that even when you think you’re running on empty, there’s more inside you than you realize.


Parenting two little beautiful monsters has taught me this firsthand. Some days, the tank feels dry, but then you hear your toddler’s laugh or get through bedtime without chaos, and you’re reminded: small miracles are everywhere.


Carry that mindset forward. Look for the little wins. Found parking on South Beach? Miracle. Made it through a Monday without a meltdown? Absolute miracle. Miracles don’t have to be grandiose; they just have to remind you to keep going.


Strength in Community


Chanukkah isn’t a solo act. Sure, lighting a menorah alone is possible, but let’s be real: it’s way better surrounded by family and friends. Whether it’s trading stories or maybe (just maybe) arguing over whose latkes are the best, fundamentally it’s about leaning into the people who lift you up and doing the same for them.


For me, that strength comes from my family and community. Celebrating holidays with loved ones, staying connected to my Jewish identity, and being part of something bigger than myself—it’s all fuel for my soul. And it’s not just about receiving; it’s about showing up for others, too. Find your people, invest in them, and let them invest in you. That’s where the real light shines.


Resilience Is in Our DNA


The Maccabees? Total rockstars. They didn’t look at impossible odds and back down. They stood up, fought for their beliefs, and kept going. That kind of resilience isn’t just a historical footnote—it’s a blueprint. Life throws curveballs (hello, parenting during sleep regressions), but like the Maccabees, you push forward because you believe in your purpose.


For me, my ‘why’ is simple: helping people. There’s nothing I love more than watching someone grow—whether it’s lending a hand, sharing advice, or just being there to cheer someone on. Helping others find their spark ignites my own.


So, what’s your ‘why’? What fuels you to wake up every day and face whatever comes your way? Find it, hold onto it, and let it guide you like the flame of the menorah.


The Power of Light


The menorah’s light isn’t just about illuminating a space; it’s about inspiring those around you. It’s a reminder that even one small flame can create warmth and hope in the darkest of times.


For me, being that light means showing up fully—whether as a father, a husband, or a friend to those who need support. It’s about leaving the world just a little brighter than I found it. And you know what? That’s something we can all do. Whether it’s through kindness, encouragement, or simply being present when it matters most, your light has the power to change someone’s day—or even their life. Your light has ripple effects.


Keeping the Flame Alive


Chanukkah may only last eight days, but its lessons are timeless. It teaches us to appreciate the little miracles, lean into our communities, live with purpose, and share our light with others.


So, as you pack away the menorah, don’t let its light fade. Take it with you. Carry its warmth and its lessons into the rest of your year. Because, like the oil that wasn’t supposed to last, your light is more powerful than you think.


Now go out there and light up the world.

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